Saturday, November 25, 2017

A Comeback Blog: When I Die

What a comeback, right? LOL! Well, it's been YEARSSSS since I've posted something here. A lot has happened which I choose not to elaborate (It's almost weekend and I'm bit tired).

So.. I made this a few weeks back and would like to post it somewhere that my sisters may read in case they want to have a reference.


(Update as of November 26, 2017)

This will be updated from time to time until either make up my mind or die, whichever comes first.

I still have my St. Peter plan, it’s mine. Contact Jong Menchavez (a friend and former colleague in Davao) as he knows who So if I die before my dad, use it. The free 4 days should be enough to process everything.

I prefer cremation but if it’s more expensive than burial, then the latter will do.

I don’t care about what you’ll do to me because I won’t know if anyway. So it can be as crappy as it can.

You don’t need to post how I was on social media because, again, I won’t know it anyway. Others won’t care either. Well, maybe my family.

If you wish to visit at my wake, do not expect people to serve you. We are a small family, independent at that. Most if not all of my friends are educated and professionals, just help yourselves. Also, don’t expect that my wake will have lots of food or have food at all. You have jobs, feed yourselves. We are still relatively poor and won’t afford additional expenses.

Lastly, on my tombstone, I want this written - I’ve lived my life based on my decisions and I take full responsibility. You should too!

(Update as of December 13, 2017)

I am just reminded of my wish right after declaring dead, to have all healthy parts donated to the most needed children, mothers or breadwinners. It'll be my family's option if they want to know the identity of the recipients, but what I would like to request to the latter -- pay it forward.

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